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Aaliyah Bedwell-Sexual Abuse or Plan of Attack

In my opinion the most heinous of all crimes is the sexual abuse of a child. And as horrific and disgusting as it is to hear about cases like that, when a parent is guilty of this it’s even more unthinkable. Imagine being accused of this crime, and being innocent.

An alibi is something you need when accused of a crime, where were you at the time and who can verify it, that sort of thing. It’s difficult enough to be alone at home watching TV and being accused of murdering your worst enemy, especially if you were seen at their house arguing hours before. Even if innocent it would be a daunting experience.

But imagine being accused of sexually abusing your child, being called a pedophile in the news, on radio, by countless online articles and blogs. All of that being done without a shred of evidence. Can you imagine going through that? How can that even be possible?

But it is happening to a father right now.

If you Google the name Aaliyah Bedwell dozens of articles will be presented to you. The vast majority of them coming from one source, the Blogger News Network. For reasons unknown they have taken up this cause and are pursuing it with a ferocious intensity, even surpassing the efforts that were put into following the Casey Anthony case. And all this is being done because of one home made video, and the word of the mother and friends.

Not one single piece of evidence has been shown. Not one single Doctor will verify these claims. No charges have been laid by police or child services. And after repeated attempts to switch venues and judges, the courts still refuse to pursue this matter. Why? I challenge anyone to find something about this case other than what the Mothers “camp” is saying. There is NOTHING.

There must be a reason that no reputable news agency has reported on this.

Interesting fact, the mother has recently lost custody of the child.

I would be among the first to demand Justice, and condemn the monstrous acts of any person capable of doing such a thing as this. But I can not do that without evidence. I cannot just take someones word for it. The stakes are too high. And if I am correct that this case is not about abuse, but custody, then abuse is happening. But it is not by the father.

False accusations of sexual abuse is not a new phenomenon and revenge, errors in autopsies, and over zealous case workers make up a great deal of them. But over 50% of these cases involve marital discourse. 50%!!!!

The recent airing of this case on 102.5 “Bubba the love Sponge” was not very favorable regarding the claims of abuse. And the choice of media to discuss this issue is bizarre in the extreme.

Justice needs to be served in this case, and I suspect the real truth is far different, from what they are trying to lead us to believe.


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May 15, 2009, 9:19 AM - Posted by | All News


  1. Whose left. Simon, Jan, Karen and Anne… anyone else beside the Bedwells? GIANT YAWN!

    “Same ‘story’, different flies”

    when is the update coming for criminal charges?


    Comment by Cubby | May 18, 2009, 11:01 AM | Reply

    • Cubby…when you are in, go to open forum. I have some comments there from yesterday and today. The last one in particular might interest you…LOL


      Comment by papa813 | May 18, 2009, 12:27 PM | Reply

  2. It is against the law to slander someone. It is against the law to falsely accuse someone of something they didn’t do. I feel that is exactly what’s going on in this case. I feel the father is being accused of a horrific crime out of deceit,spite,and because she didn’t get her way. Very childish. There is more to this story than what the mother is willing to tell. She lost everything due to her own issues. And now that that’s happened, she’s angry and wants to get at the father too. In a for of “If I can’t have her, then either can you”. Judges have a very very very hard time taking children from their mothers. It takes A LOT for that to happen. I mean, you have to be a HUGE F* up before that happens, and even then, there is still no guarantee that the judge would take the child/children from a mother. So with that being said, Really take a serious look at this case before you jump in the deep end to save a child who is probably more than likely already safe. Be open minded. This mother is out for revenge towards the father because she F* up and now she’s mad. JMHO


    Comment by paw69 | May 18, 2009, 11:05 AM | Reply

  3. I’m waiting for this trial that’s suppose to happen.


    Comment by paw69 | May 18, 2009, 11:09 AM | Reply

  4. Yeah, there’s going to be a trial alright. But it’s not going to be for the mother to win custody. It will be fore her criminal charges she’s about to get.


    Comment by paw69 | May 18, 2009, 11:11 AM | Reply

  5. The comments at the Auburn Journal are really heating up.


    Comment by papa813 | May 18, 2009, 1:04 PM | Reply

  6. This is posted at:


    Doc Joe Saturley
    May 18th, 2009 at 9:41 am
    I am hopeful to get the chance to to out to California and meet with the mother and father in this case. Let’s give them all the chance to do legitimate psychological testing. I will give them the benefit of the doubt and spend ample time observing them with the child and reviewing all the data. This case needs a neutral professional who can get to the bottom of the issues.

    I promise you, the mother isn’t going for this. This is the doctor that said on the show that she wouldn’t send him her own mental evaluation report.


    Comment by papa813 | May 18, 2009, 1:20 PM | Reply

  7. I just finished reading the letter being touted by the other site as “expert” evidence that supported the mother’s claim. I have to admit to a lack of knowledge about child abuse cases in court proceedings, but wouldn’t a court sanctioned expert in child abuse need to have different letters after their name? Like a P and an H followed by a D perhaps? What is MSW and LCSW? What does that mean? It’s not similar to CPC is it?


    Comment by papa813 | May 18, 2009, 1:54 PM | Reply

  8. papa, an MSW is a Masters Degree in Social Work and a LCSW is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker.


    Comment by Jon | May 18, 2009, 6:06 PM | Reply

    • Thank You, I found it later, but I honestly didn’t know at the time of my question…lol


      Comment by papa813 | May 18, 2009, 10:35 PM | Reply

  9. what ever happened with this?


    Comment by Duval Computing Services | August 14, 2010, 6:16 AM | Reply

  10. I don’t know. It has been a long time since I have heard anything. I can only assume the little girl is still with her father, and Connie has been forced to stop doing what she was doing. If anything was different I’m sure Connie’s “camp” would have smothered the net with it.


    Comment by Beast | August 14, 2010, 2:02 PM | Reply

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